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When it's over...
Posted on Aug 29th, 2008
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heemes
heemes
...it really is over.
Au revoir.
Au revoir.
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don't forget to write….
leaving Gaia? we'll miss you… what happened? I'm here if you want to talk…
It's not about leaving Gaia; I'm not.
It is about understanding friendships, feelings, and emotionally abusive dynamics. When no one is to blame.
Nevertheless, these friendships need to end. And so I terminated one.
Appreciate your comments too.
I love you friend with all my heart , and soul.
Whatever you need to do , is okay with me.
I will listen any day , with a open heart , and soul.
Love you ,
Authentic Soul
when you let go of your grasp on love…you truly set it free…
Detaching hurts even when it's healthy.
I wish you whatever soothes your heart and soul today :)
Truly wonderful hearing that, Lori.
Starlight, I've heard that love doesn't bind, even if we ask it to. Freedom to love and be loved, this is my quest.
holding a space for you heemes to grieve, to cry, to think, to die….and then to grow, to glow, and stand in your power, knowing the lesson, drinking it into your cells, so that you walk upward on onward on your path with more light and love.
love is beautiful and stays through the years growing and entwining around the hearts of lovers, friends and family. to truly love, I was shown by the head monk of of a Thai monastery, is to first love oneself, and then love, without expectation or attachment. all others. when I learned to walk in this way, bliss became my way. and I attract like soul towards me so that my circle of loved ones is a blooming garden of loving, caring, strong hearts. and one day if Goddess has it in her mind out of my Impossible Dream will step the mirroring of my love.
until then all is as it should be.
with love and caring
a smiling jaguer/bliss faerie
“And this too shall pass…..”
Kudos to you for finding the strength to do what you had to do. I hope that you find the love & happiness that you deserve.
Love N Light~
Sunshine
I applaud you in choosing to have respect for yourself first. That is the spring board for being able to respect others.
By letting go of something abusive, you make space for something kind and supportive.
Cheers & Hugs to you…. ~J
Thanks for the support, kind ladies Janet, Sunshine, and Jaguar Goddess; in my pain, I choose to release all negativity and welcome new energy. And so the pain diminishes slowly but surely.
I am in the midst of sawing down my 10ft sunflowers…..let me know when it is time to party….please…..as I machete my way to my front door. I had a divorce party once upon a time. It was super. Like a wake. Worked wonders on my recovery…..just a thought….it is amazing what thoughts are stomping through my gray matter as I do Jane in the Jungle here….lololol.
Thinking of you, Heemes, sending healing energy…and lots of laughter…..mwuah….back to the jungle…
Dear Paul,
May your tears fall on wings of love , they are the pearls of your heart
and may they become like soft white feathers carrying your cleansed heart
into new realms of tenderness, love and understanding
and if meanwhile, need a shoulder to lean on, an ear to listen, we're here and we're your friends.
Hugs,
Lucienne
You are loved…I have had a similar experience….know you are nor alone!
Hugs,
Aley
Reach for those stars , and never look back sweetie.
Love,
Lori
(((((Paul))))) I am always here for you.
In my pain, I choose to release all negativity and welcome new energy. And so the pain diminishes slowly but surely.
You are a wonderfuly amazing person.
Hugs!
-Susan
(((((((Paul)))))) having loved and lost three times so far this year here on Gaia, I think I know something of the pain you're going through in losing this special friendship. It really hurts like h*** and then gradually it gets easier. The beauty of Gaia is the amazing support that you have when going through anything rough, especially heartache, cause we all know that feeling. I've seen your comments above and it looks like you're dealing with this beautifully. I hope you find really good ways to take care of yourself every day….
Jaguar Goddess, will sound the horn of happiness when, not if, the next party shows up. Thanks for the repeat comment; much appreciated along with your own blog about the Impossible Dream!
Lucienne, I'm basking in the beauty of that image. And I also want that vision for her. Perhaps there will be a time when she and I can truly reconnect as friends and not imaginary soulmates. And that time is not right now.
Aley, divine creator, more seeds headed your way!
Lori, Susan, and Nicole, your presence is always valued.
Thanks friend - you have shown me that love is a better choice. You have shown that to me in an earlier experience and it was made real.
i am here for you, with you paul
I am pleased to honor the witnessing from my male friends. I have learned that a friendship of peers in many ways is gold to me. My men's work with MKP has revealed to me I have much to learn from my brothers. I see Samme and Satya-Seer in this light; I teach and learn, sometimes in the same moment, because I share vulnerably my experiences.
I wish you well Paul.
It is an honor to see men supporting mean with a “teach and learn” with genuine concern for one another. Being vulnerable is an opportunity for someone to love you, as you know.
They get to know you. Nice to see your friends will know you beyond their illusions of who you are while loving you enough to care to know you. That is no cool Paul.
Sometimes emails, blogs and comments are misunderstood due to a one sided interpretation.
We can be so surprised how someone interprets things.
Blessings,
LeAnn
Hi Paul! Listening to you and know and believe that you are making the best decision for you and another! Hugs and blessings!
Well I posted a comment on her blog today, my first attempt of direct contact of any sort here on Gaia, and suddenly her profile is “friends only”. It's really hard to admit I may have made a mistake by cutting her out as a friend instead of working things out when there's no listening going on. My wise and insightful comment is summed up this way: ”It's time to let go!”
Ahhhhhhhhhh
For me, I Know that 'this or that' is never really over, it simply shifts in texture & dimension…
When I parted from the best companionship ever (!!!!!) it was wisdom to do so, & after some 22 years we are still attuned psychically… I have the scyncronistic connections to back that up…. I know that the people who have entered my life have been an integral part of my awakening journey (the good, the bad, all of it) what blessings…. And… there is a time to let go & move on, & sometimes a coming back together… life becomes after all like a flowing river… some eddies and some heading strong towards other places… and the rain always brings it all back again…
Warm hugs Paul
pj